Screening for Perpetrators
Possible Indicators of a Victim/Survivor:
Possible Indicators of an Abuser
|The survivor often…
||An abuser often…
How to Screen for Perpetrators
Abusers try to get those working with them to back off, either by being constantly angry and challenging or extremely agreeable. Their goal is to wear you down or enlist you as an ally to get the system to do as little monitoring as possible. Their arguments may appear to be persuasive and logical and they may have successfully persuaded probation officers, judges or therapists to be lenient; this can often be avoided with proper investigation.
To assess whether someone is a perpetrator, go over abusive incidents and examine the context, the intent of actions and the effect of those actions. Consider the following questions only in those cases where there is real ambiguity. To apply this method to all clients could promote victim-blaming because to ask a victim questions about what s/he was doing prior to an abusive incident could imply mutual responsibility.
- What is/was happening in the relationship before & after the behavior occurred?
- What meaning or history does the behavior have given the context?
- What are the reasons for the behavior? Self-defense or control?
- What is the goal of the behavior? Control?
- Whose life is smaller as a result of the behavior? Who is being controlled, etc.?
In general, try to “slow down” the story. Ask about what happened in the abusive incident, starting with even an hour before the event — what the client was feeling, doing and thinking, and then what happened, and who said what. Obtain details and keep the discussion chronological.
Note: Again, this method should be used carefully, and only in those cases where there is real ambiguity. To apply this method to all clients could promote victim-blaming because to ask a victim questions about what s/he was doing prior to an abusive incident could imply mutual responsibility.
Questions to Ask
When screening to distinguish between an abuser and a victim/survivor, service providers must assess the power dynamics of the relationship. Some useful questions include:
- Is this a pattern of behavior? Does the accuser claim that the partner has committed one or more of these acts more than once?
- Who seems to be more in control of the other person? Who seems to make most of the decisions? Who gets their way most of the time?
- Has one partner changed their job, friends, socialization patterns, ideas and activities in response to the other person’s requirements?
- Who is afraid of whom? Without prompting, has the client indicated she is afraid of their partner? Are they afraid to stay in their home with their partner? Are they afraid to fight or disagree with their partner?
- What have the consequences been if they have a disagreement or the authority of the accused is challenged?
- How does the client describe the impact that the abuse has had on them? How do they feel about themselves, their ability/need to please their partner?
- Does either partner admit to abuse/violence against their partner and how does she explain it? Is there blame or responsibility taken? Is it in self-defense?
- Who initiated the violent incident cannot tell you automatically who is the perpetrator. It is important to remember that although someone may strike the first ‘blow’, they may have done so because a past pattern of abuse alerted them to imminent violence.
- Distinguish between abusive and assertive behavior. Abusers often label any behavior that they dislike ‘abuse’.
In addition, if a service is concerned about a client’s own violent behavior against a partner, some further questions can be posed, including:
- What was the intent behind their violent behavior? Was it to: control the partner or cause their partner to change their behavior?; hurt or injure their partner?; to retaliate against their partner who was abusive in the past?; to protect themselves?
- Have they ever inflicted an injury on their partner (either emotional or physical)? How severe were those injuries? What was the effect of this violent behavior on their partner?
- Was the person’s use of physical or verbal aggression a pattern of behavior?
- What was the sequence of events leading to the violence? What do they see as being the cause of the violence?
- Have they ever had a previous violent relationship and how do they describe that relationship?
- How do they feel about the violent incident? Who do they see as being to blame or responsible?
- New Jersey Coalition of Battered Women